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I am terrified of flying. While others s̶l̶e̶e̶p̶ ̶s̶o̶u̶n̶d̶l̶y̶ fly around me, my heart pounds and I am alert to the possibilities of a t̶e̶r̶r̶o̶r̶i̶s̶t̶ ̶e̶x̶p̶l̶o̶s̶i̶o̶n̶, a wing f̶a̶l̶l̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶o̶f̶f̶ collapsing, e̶n̶g̶i̶n̶e̶ equipment failure, the pilot passing out, or lightning. I mostly continue to t̶r̶a̶v̶e̶l̶ fly, enduring torturous flights to get to my destination, but am unable to sleep the night before or relax for the last few days of my h̶o̶l̶i̶d̶a̶y̶ flight. I have become an “air nuisance” – instilling fear in the calmest of p̶a̶s̶s̶e̶n̶g̶e̶r̶s̶ pilots unlucky enough to sit be by me.

On one occasion, having called my parents and a few close friends from the d̶e̶p̶a̶r̶t̶u̶r̶e̶ ̶l̶o̶u̶n̶g̶e̶ hill to say final farewells “just in case”, I found myself petrified. My legs trembled and I felt the urge to vomit. The final c̶a̶l̶l̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶b̶o̶a̶r̶d̶ thermal came – and went. I missed the flight, and my h̶o̶l̶i̶d̶a̶y̶ cross country.

Another time, in C̶o̶s̶t̶a̶ ̶R̶i̶c̶a̶ Anncey where I had spent two fearless months swimming with s̶h̶a̶r̶k̶s̶ fish, hitchhiking and tucking into street food, I became obsessed with the fact that I was due to fly h̶o̶m̶e̶ on Friday 13th, and paid a small fortune to change t̶h̶e̶ ̶f̶l̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶a̶ ̶“̶b̶e̶t̶t̶e̶r̶”̶-̶s̶o̶u̶n̶d̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶d̶a̶t̶e̶ sports.

Finally, I decided that enough was enough – and enrolled in a one-day “flying without fear” course run by V̶i̶r̶g̶i̶n̶ ̶A̶t̶l̶a̶n̶t̶i̶c̶ John Miller.

I soon realised that I was not alone: in the conference room in G̶a̶t̶w̶i̶c̶k̶ ̶a̶i̶r̶p̶o̶r̶t̶ John's garage in which we assembled, I joined forces with 175 chattering wrecks, all exchanging horror stories about flying. Fear does not discriminate – men and women, and people of all ages and backgrounds, were represented. John's talk calmed with his stories of hanggliding from days gone by.

Safe flying see you on the hill. :D
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Yes, it takes us all hostage at one time or another. The brave land and face the humiliation, the fools fly on! :wink:
See you out there!!!!!

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lack of knowledge breeds fear

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Hi Lloyd,

This is exactly why patience in this sport is paramount ! over the years you build up a pit of valuable knowledge and as you know "lack of knowledge"
breeds fear its as simple as that.

If I decide not to fly its because something does not feel right.. so I don't fly ! and this make me feel great when walking back to the car, yes disappointed because I can't fly but at the same time now looking forward to flying another day because I know I will enjoy it THATS THE DIFFERENCE of making the RIGHT decision !

Over the years I watch other pilots taking chances and they get away with it.. JUST ! then the day comes when they don't and they now have to make the decision wether to continue with the sport or give up ! normally they give up.

I would say it takes at least 10years of flying current to become consistant
and confident in picking the right conditions and getting the best out of the days flying and even then you will get caught out from time to time.

Flying is a great challenge everytime you go out that why I have been doing it for over 40 years now and still enjoying every minute 8)
Maximise your time & dosh do both Hanggliding & Paragliding :)
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ron freeman wrote:I would say it takes at least 10years of flying current to become consistant
and confident in picking the right conditions and getting the best out of the days flying and even then you will get caught out from time to time.
This makes me feel a whole lot better about my weather predictions.

I know some people pick it up easily but I'm not afraid to admit that I like a second & third opinion from pilots I trust.

If I go from my own opinion on the iffy weather days I usually stay at home. I'm sure this means I miss out on sketchy days that I should be out experiencing to gain this golden knowledge. However, if I decide not to go out & don't miss any flying, subconsciously am I making the right decision but not gaining the knowledge from pilot chat on the hill & my own observations?

Decisions, decisions...
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You won't "feel"anything in the house!
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Like I'd actually stay in the house Brian... Do you know me at all? :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Forgive me Angus, I was generalising.
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